If you see a well-groomed woman who is looking around with a smile in a bar or at a party, be aware that she might be looking for a man of her dreams. There are, actually, some implicit messages she might be sending you if she is interested:
? She looks at you, then looks aside, then looks back at you, but this time longer. From time to time she might be smiling gently.
? She plays with her hair or with her jewelry
? She crosses her legs
? She demonstrates her wrists
Come up to her. Don't be afraid. She will spare you two minutes. The rest will depend on you.
So, you have made the first step and have approached her. Then comes the most difficult part ? what to say? If it's a party or a bar, you can simply introduce yourself, ?Hi, I am Wayne. What's your name?? Even she hasn't been looking for a date that night, she will tell you her name. And then who knows what it will lead to. Remember her name and try to use it as of then as possible in a conversation. The sound of her own name will be the sweetest music for any woman's ears.
The next two minutes will be enough for her to make a certain opinion of you. Find a good subject for a conversation to leave a good impression. For the first 5-10 minutes you can actually talk about yourself. She has to know what kind of guy she has just met. She will always be able to take part in this conversation. The more you tell of yourself, the easier it will be to find out more about her. You wonder if she is married - tell her that you are single. You want to know where she works ? tell her about your job. But don't go overboard ? after you have talked about yourself for 5-10 minutes, change the subject and start asking about her. Ask her questions. Look her into the eyes. Pay attention to her and listen to what she is saying. This way you send her a message that you are understanding and caring.
A woman pays attention to feelings and emotions that your speech creates, rather than to what you are actually saying. She will remember your attention and the atmosphere, rather than the actual words.
Now, when she knows that you are kind, intelligent, caring and generous ? there is something else missing?How to get her like you?
The easiest way to get the girl of your dreams like you is to let her know that you are attracted to her, that she is the one, and that all other women don't exist for you anymore.
The best way to show that you are interested is a flow of compliments. The compliments should not be only about her looks. During the conversation you will have many chances to say, ?Really? Did you? I am impressed. Good for you.?
Girls would quickly lose interest when a guy expects her to call, plan and do everything, because most likes she waits for your action. Therefore, if you want to see her again, agree about the time you will call and be ready to set a date.