Everybody will agree with that our modern attitude to marriage as well as the family institute has changed and is changing compared to what our grandparents thought about it, when they were in their 20th and 30th.
According to researchers? reports, the couples, who did not cohabite before the wedding ceremony, have more chances to keep their marriage. Those who got married, being young, having little money and different religious believes, are in the risky group either. They tend to experience divorce procedure more often.
Scientists have also found the following regularity. Three of four women have got married until their thirties, but a lot of these families don't last for a long time. Generally, couples break their marriage before their 15th wedding anniversary.
Still people get married. What are the reasons to reach this vital decision? The most spread one is loneliness and age. One Saturday morning you, a beautiful girl of 25 (you are sure you will always be 25) or a handsome guy of 30 and something, call your friends and invite them to a movie or for a walk, and with deep concern you find out that almost all of them are married, they have their own family plans for the weekend. Moreover, you hear nice childish voices with ?mom and dad? at the background, and your friends, with whom you had your funniest time, speeds up to finish the phone conversation. You get depressed and decide to have your own family with all its pros and cons.
Another spread reason, the opposite one, is youth and lack of experience. It is your first love, the person you are dating with seems to be the best in the world, seems to be your chance to get married. At that moment you are absolutely sure your marriage will be the happiest one, you will live for a long time and will die on one day. You do not follow your parents? advice: ?Papa, do not preach?. You believe you love affair to be the best story for a bestseller.
Before marriage you should be aware of the fact that your life will change. You will have more responsibilities, but you will become more sophisticated and wiser. You will have to break off some habits, but you will develop some new, better than old ones. You will have more people to care about, but you will have more people to rely on, who will give you a support in different life situations. And it is up to you whether you will have a happy marriage or a divorce.