During the first years of marriage life partners adopt themselves to each other. A number of people admit with shame that they argued constantly with their partners during the first (the second, the third) year of marriage life. The remark on wrong place where you have put your fork may lead to the row. The family is establishing its own life rules to follow.
A wife and a husband should base on the relationship principle ?adult-adult?, i.e. to follow the principle ?I take, but I also give?.
Marriage life is more difficult for those, who live with parents. When there are a lot of eyewitnesses, you have to control yourself, and irritation will accumulate. So one would better build family life without outsiders.
When the first crisis is over? Unfortunately, many couples cannot wait for that moment and divorce. Those, who have managed to survive over it, will be granted. Marriage life in your own house will be comfortable. The most important things for partners will be emotional intimacy and devotion to each other.