Added: 09/12/2006 |
Dating game of loveSet goals and follow up on a regular basis. Goals move and stimulate us. In business, sports, politics, career and relationship goals make the difference between reaching forward conscientiously, or spinning around in meaningless circles. Most people have more difficulty defining their goals than they do reaching them once the goals are set.
Protect your feelings by using your head. Use common sense and listen to yourself. Don’t let yourself be swept off your feet by the wrong person who will end up breaking your heart.
Remember that attitude is 90% of success. Love yourself and the other will be attracted to you. Be enthusiastic. Place some positive quotes around your home to inspire you to win.
If you want yours dates to treat you well, make sure that you treat yourself well. Let your inner light shine. Don’t put yourself down.
Learn to accept compliments graciously. You have heard them thousands of times before and you are glad to hear them again. Let the others know that you are a winner.
Reinvent yourself if you need to. Change your image. Schedule a new haircut, buy some new clothes, or try new activities you have never thought of trying.
Play a game with yourself to find more singles today than yesterday. If you do, come up with some reward for yourself.
“Practice makes perfect” is an old saying that holds true for dating. The more you date, the more comfortable you will feel while dating. Learn to maintain a conversation, ask questions and put your date at ease. Plan dates that are filled with activities. Bring some friends along to double date to help relieve your date’s nervousness.
Be nice to your dates, but be yourself. Let your personality shine without trying too hard to make a good impression. Relax and stop worrying of what your date thinks of you.
Analyze your past relationship. Nothing will help you learn more about your relational strengths and unhealthy patterns than taking an inventory of your past relationship. Look to discover insights of your dating habits so that you might avoid mistakes in your future relationship. Look into your review mirror and learn from your past.
Include others in the dating process. It’s essential to get feedback from your friends and family. When you are in love, it’s easy to get carried away and ignore the red flags. Listen to others and weight their advice. It can solve you from a pain and misery.
Never neglect an opportunity to evaluate your dating habits. Don’t allow your hormones, or intuition to be your only guides. Take time to sit down and think of what is going on. Ask yourself if your relationship is beneficial for each other; if there is mutual giving and sharing. Go with the feelings flow, and pain awaits you. Use your brain, and move into the more mature kind of love, which will be a foundation of long-lasting relationship.
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