Added: 12/14/2005 |
Giving birth to a child is a very happy and joyful event in a person's life. From the very first minute of life it is the women who are certain to feel ultimately bonded to the child. When trying to compare her child with other things that rank high on her list of priorities in life her child will definitely overcome others. For example when work and child are compared a very vast majority of women would choose the latter. But there is another aspect of work and child problem - it is the question about how these two can be combined. In fact the experience of women all over the world proves that it is actually possible to manage taking care of both work and child provided that the woman is an energetic and enthusiastic one.
However, any discussion of the subject of work and child in a regular woman's life is about to touch upon the question of the family status of some specific woman under discussion, which would actually determine how desperately the woman needs to work.
Speaking about successfully married couples with both parents actively taking care of the family well-being, it becomes obvious that the woman, the mother of the child will be able to budget much more time to taking care of her beloved child and the work and child ratio in terms of time devoted will look to the favor of ten latter.
But that was the best possible scenario; another would be of the father of family not making enough money to support his wife and child, which places the woman into the condition in which she would have to work. If this is the case, the child will be able to get much less of her attention and this of course has a chance of having significant impact on the child's development. In this situation there may be other people involved for taking care of the child, namely relatives or babysitters. This may produce no significant detrimental effect on the process of bonding of the child with his parents, provided that there is still a good amount of time left for childcare purposes.
But still another scenario would be to consider a single mother family with the woman being the only provider for the family. In this case work and child both demand a great deal of attention and effort. However, it still seems possible to combine the two. There exist several ways in which work and child would not compete with each other in the woman's life. First of all, it is perfectly possible for a woman to combine taking care of business and watching over the child in case of single mother work at home.
There are a great many occupations that can be taken on thus allowing the woman to work effectively at her own pace and with her own schedule and this would still allow some interruptions for the childcare needs. Single mother own business can be an even better solution, thus placing the woman under no obligation to report to anyone and thus the woman can plan her day and allow time to take care of her child.
But that is of course possible if the woman has her business well tuned and profitable without much effort and sacrifice on her part, while the early stages can be quite exacting in terms of time and effort required.
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