One of the most valuable forms of the flirt techniques is a simple smile. Many people underestimate the importance of a smile. When a person is seen, or is talking to another and is not smiling this may be read as indifference and will certainly not be considered flirting. If smiling, the person that you speak to will immediately know that you are happy to be talking to them. That fact alone, will most often led that person into feeling desire, pleased to have your attention and be open to a conversation. The smile should not be overdone, a simple casual smile is best and a person should make their smile larger whenever the other person says something amusing or interesting.
The next step to the flirt techniques is to know what to say and what not to say. Cheesy pickup lines do not work at all. When a man flirts, he should begin by saying something that will complement the woman, without embarrassing her. A simple hello, a smile and something said to the effect of, “I saw you from a distance and could not help but notice your wonderful smile.” That is all a woman needs to hear to know that a man is interested. Such phrases as, “Do you come here often?” and “An angel must have landed from heaven” are outdated and will turn a woman off.
When women flirt, it may proceed a bit different. A lot of women do not feel they should approach a man, but that thinking limits the possibilities of meeting someone great. A woman can use flirt techniques that is simple and will not make her embarrassed. Most women find the option of being turned down to be unbearable and therefore will not even start a conversation. It is for that reason, that for a woman to flirt, she can easily begin by asking a man a question.
Men in general love to be considered the keepers of knowledge. By asking a simple question, such as, “Do you know how to get to such-and-such street?” or “Would you be so kind as to tell me the time?”, a woman can open the door to conversation. Most men will be happy to reply and give the woman any answer he possibly can. If the man replies and seems to want to continue the conversation, the woman can throw in some flirty comments such as telling the man she usually does not approach strangers but that he seemed so likeable and kind, she felt comfortable doing so. Men like to hear compliments as much as women do. A compliment can go quite a long way. When two people find themselves engaged in a flirty conversation, words will begin to come easy and with a bit of luck will conclude with a date scheduled.