Truth or dare is a classic party game that can be embarrassing, humiliating, challenging, and a whole lot of fun. There are many versions of the truth or dare game, but all of them have the same basic premise. A group of people gets together. Each person takes a turn picking "truth or dare." If truth is chosen, then that person is asked what is usually an embarrassing question that he or she is required to answer. If dare is chosen, then he or she is required to perform a dare that is, again, usually embarrassing in some way or another. The real appeal of truth or dare to most people is the stories truth or dare will bring out.
One version of the truth or dare game is done to sort of keep everyone in check when it comes to the dares. A problem with many a truth or dare game is coming up with dares that are uncomfortably embarrassing for the group playing. In this version of truth or dare, every player writes a predetermined number of dares on pieces of paper, which are placed in a hat or some other container. When a player selects dare, he or she must draw the dare from the hat. If the dare is too bad, that person may appeal to the party who can vote to change the dare or allow another pull from the hat. If, however, the dare was written by the daree, then that person has no right of appeal. Truth can still be made up in this version, but the voting appeal can be used if some truths are better left unsaid. Just remember that the stories truth or dare brings out are half the fun, though.
The more traditional version of truth or dare is much simpler. One person in the group is chosen to start the game. That person calls on a person of their choosing and asks "truth or dare?" If the chosen person chooses "truth" then the player who is starting the game may ask anything he or she wants that is deemed appropriate (note: there is a difference between inappropriate and embarrassing). If the picked player does not feel the question is appropriate, then he or she may appeal to the rest of the group. The group's decision, however, stands. If the player, instead, chooses the "dare" option, then that player starting the game may dare the person to do what he or she likes. It must, however, not be anything dangerous, hurtful, or illegal. The process of appeal may also be used for dares that seem inappropriate. Once the truth or dare has been completed, the next person in the circle chooses a person. This cycle can go on as long as the group wants.
No matter if you play the traditional version, draw your dares out of a hat, or make up your own version, truth or dare is a classic party game for people of all ages. The appeal is largely the fact that every game is different or that you can enjoy putting varying spins on the game. Truth or dare is a wonderful way to get the juiciest gossip or to embarrass your friends.
The stories from a good game of truth or dare will resonate for years or even a lifetime if they are embarrassing enough. However, always remember, that your turn will eventually come and it will be your turn to answer that ominous question: "truth or dare?"