Why do you think that men and women date married? I don't know the answer to that but it is true that more married women are stepping out on their husbands with someone else. We don't really know why this is but maybe some women prefer to have someone else by their side that will treat them better then the man that they are with right know. Every woman loves passion and if they aren't getting that in their own marriage then they may have to go somewhere else to find it.
The reason men might be dating married women is because they feel there is less of a chance of serious involvement. Men have the feeling that ok I will go out find a woman and then have sex with her. The next morning we will wake up and she will go and everything else will be OK. Of course it never works like that, you may get a girl that wants to stay with you, or you may get a girl that will want to tell your wife, or your conscience may get the better of you one day.
Do you think it's morally right to be dating married? Why when there are so many single women would a guy be dating married women? As discussed the chance of having a serious relationship with someone is considered low and of course when they are with their friends they want to be known as the "stud" around them.
The answer to these questions might best have been answered by interviewing such people. That is what I did. I asked people who were dating married why they were dating married. Most said something was missing in their relationship. So the next question to that is why not work on the marriage and the most common answer to that was it's just easier to find someone else.
My next interview question was why are men dating married women. And as I suspected the most common answer to that was they were not interested in a serious commitment and there was little chance of a serious commitment dating married women.
When I asked married women why they were dating married, they said they wanted passion. That their husbands were no longer passionate. Every woman needs to feel wanted and needs to be told that they are loved. If the passion dies in a marriage then you can expect to see divorce papers in the near future.
This all sounds like excuses to me. Either work on your marriage or get a divorce.
Dating married is just a sad excuse for being irresponsible and hurtful to people they claim to love. If you are willing to cheat on the person that you love then you may experience some pain when that person tells you how they feel about this.
Men who are thinking about dating married women before you do think about how you world feel if it were your wife. Would you want your wife sleeping around with other guy's? Of course you wouldn't because that would make you look like the less dominant person in that relationship, you have to feel like the man in the relationship, otherwise you will feel that your wife can walk all over you. So what is the answer? Sleep with a million women just to make yourself feel better? Why not try talking with your wife instead of going out and planning to hurt her. Talking is better then feeling pain.