Teens haven't changed much since we were in high school. All the time they're looking for the next big get together. Of course, they do a lot more than just hang out at these wild hardcore parties. In fact, many of them get a little to out of control and people end up in jail or even worse, the hospital. Teens aren't trying to get hurt or get put in jail, but when they get around their friends they don't use good judgment. Kids give in too much to their friends who try to get them to try drugs. Even if you have had talk with your child, you can't be with all the time, and they are bound to make the wrong choice. All we can do, is hope that one wrong choice doesn't cost them their life. Drug overdose is a common thing at most of these wild hardcore parties. Of course, drugs and drinking is not the only thing that is a problem. Sex and date rape drugs are a growing problem.

Teens know that there is a lot of things going on during a wild hardcore party. You need to talk to teen girls about not leaving their drinks sitting around where they can't see them. Many teen boys are looking for an opportunity to have sex with some of the popular girls at school, the girls that would not give them the time of day. So when hot girls leave their drinks unattended at a wild hardcore party, guys will tend to put date rape drugs in it. You would think that with so many people around someone would see, they do, but most of the time they won't say anything if they get a piece of her too. So the girls drink the fixed drink and get knocked out. Then three or four guys will rape her. I know it sounds bad, and it is, but this is the terrible truth behind some of these wild hardcore parties. Sometimes these girls don't even know that this has happened until they wake up naked, covered in sperm. Lots of times the girls get pregnant or a STD. This is a sad time in any teens life, and for those who have suffered from date rape drugs, my heart goes out to you.

Things can even get worse when teens go out of town to party, like during Spring Break. This is when most of the wild hardcore parties happen. Spring Break is a time for teens to get out and cut loose from school. This is a very important time for them, but most don't use good judgment during this time. This leads to them doing things that they normally wouldn't do. Many girls walk around topless and grind on every guy they see. Sure this may seem great for the guys, but it puts the girls in a bad spot. There have even been reports of teens getting killed. Many of them will take drugs and do things that put them in dangerous predicaments. Some people can handle it and others can't. They have made people dance on top of hotel balconies, and when they are on drugs or drunk you can guess how that turns out. This turns a fun event into something very bad.

It's sad that so many of these parties turn out this way. You can't stop your teen from going to all these parties; they will find ways to sneak away and get to them. The best thing you can do is to talk to your teen, and tell them to be aware of these things. Maybe if we work together we can help to prevent anymore really bad things from happening.