Sikh dating itself is not scary, but the fact that you will be meeting parents so early on is the scary part. It is so scary when you meet your date's parents. You are under the spotlight and you can't help but think that they are watching your every move. But put that paranoia aside and try to enjoy yourself.
Sikh dating is a good way to see what you might get yourself into if you do decide to marry. Parents of someone else will not try to scare you; instead they will try and make you feel at home. They are not red-eyed monsters that want to interrogate you about your past; instead they will try and be friendly with you. You may even be surprised at the friendliness but try not to look surprised. Most parents will get you at ease just to see the real you. If you are at ease then you will feel more relaxed and more ready to talk without fear.
If you do meet the parents from hell, then you will wish that you went to a restaurant for your Sikh dating. But you knew that you were more then likely going to meet the parents at some point, so getting it out of the way sooner rather then later is a good idea. Sikh dating is hard on the people that are dating; you will both have to meet the parents at some point. You may think that they are going to eat you alive, but you just have to know that they are more then likely good people. They want to know the person that has made their child so happy and you are that person. They will always treat you with the respect that you deserve as a human being.
Sikh women may feel that they have the worst of it when Sikh dating, as they will be the one that will have the worst from the other person's parents. The other person's parents will want to know all about you. Every single last detail, they will make you at ease and then try and bombard you with questions. The son of the parents can jump in to your aid should you wish for it, but most of the time they will sense when they you are under stress. They will look after Sikh women and they will try and make their parents like that also. You will be there really scared and the parents will know that, if you don't come out of your shell then at the end of the date the parents won't like you. They will say that you are too shy and that you are not right for their child. But being to upfront can also be a problem for the parents, you have to try and find that happy middle ground.
Being a Sikh man however is not as good as you might think. You are expected to be able to provide for your partner, you have to also look serious about your partner. You will of course be serious and you will want to provide for them, that is the male pride that will be kicking in. This person will make you so happy that you want to give them everything and you will want to show their parents that you can do that.
Meeting the parents is a scary time for anyone. Even if you have been assured that they will not attack you, you will still feel slightly worried about meeting them. But stay confident and you will be able to make a lasting impression on them. You will then make the parents happy that you are going out with their child. But the best advice to give is to not try and seem better than them, otherwise that will just cause trouble.