I can't speak for most couples, but I think my wife and I have a pretty healthy sex life. Now, I'm not going to spill it all on the page before you - you're going to have to pay if you really want to hear all the details. But my point is, after 20 years of marriage we still manage to "turn each other on" or whatever the heck the latest terminology is. I don't think we've reached the point where we need to play sexy dress up games. Especially if those sexy dress up games involve me and a pair of black stiletto high heels.
I am all for sexy dress up games that involving my wife. On more than one occasion I've bought a number of sexy little things for her and have really enjoyed putting them on my wife. Let it be said, that taking those sexy little things off her was a lot more fun! But if I have to do one in order to enjoy doing the other then so be it! But I don't feel the need to indulge in sexy dressing up myself. There are some psychologists who feel men need to get in touch with their feminine sides, and thus can benefit from slipping into their wife's lingerie. I'm not really comfortable with that. First of all because I doubt any of my wife's lingerie will fit me. And secondly I don't think I look good in purple. But hey, if acting out your fantasies involves a bit of sexy dressing up -- then by all means knock yourself out.
I wonder if any of this is linked to the games we played as children. You know as kids we spent some of our time dressing up our dolls. Little boys dressed up their soldiers to go play war and little girls dressed up their Barbies. I don't think I would classify this as a sexy dress up game. Kids are way too innocent for that. However, while researching on the internet I found several links for sexy dress up games involving Japanese Manga characters. Perhaps you've seen them -- those cartoon characters in Japanese animated cartoons. Young girls with big assets and very little clothing complete with ridiculously big eyes. Now why anyone would want to spend their time playing sexy dress up games on a computer with an animated cartoon character is beyond me. But maybe there's something to be gained from it. After all, men are being encouraged to slip into their wife's high heels also.
Now it's been said, that inside every man there's a woman, and I wonder if the girl that apparently resides in us all is dying to rear her head. It wouldn't be the first time that a man slipped into a pair f his wife's stockings and discovered he enjoyed it. Nothing like having a wife who is jealous of another woman that just happens to be her husband. How does a guy explain he is cheating on his wife when the other woman exists in his head? And what's more, does that woman also complain about having a headache every time the guy wants sex?
I also found a few sights that encourage viewers to indulge in sexy dressing up of pornographic film actresses. Yet another pastime that has me scratching my head. But at least if you're going to spend an hour or so playing fake sex dress up games at least you're doing it with someone who has a pulse. Of course real sex dress up games with the same porn actress would be even better, but that's what fantasies are all about now aren't they?