One of the best nude parties I ever went to was in college many years ago. Only one of the best. There’ve been many over the years. That particular party I’m thinking of had more than a little investment involved and the party did sort of revolve around the possibility of creating a great big orgy. The orgy never happened, at least as far as my own participation was concerned (I have a healthy fear of sexually transmitted diseases on college campuses and elsewhere), but all in all it was a fantastic circus of laughter, drugs, alcohol, and a healthy outlet for my pent up college energies. I was unattached, at the prime of my health at that time, and ready to roll.
I never participated in a nude frat party, even though I was invited to a few. The idea of being around guys who were known under normal circumstances to do questionably legal things to get laid, and actually be nude with those people in a party environment, was an opportunity I chose to pass on. More than once.
But nude parties don’t necessarily have to revolve around a sexual theme. Most of the nude parties I’ve been to were more about just feeling good and being open, having good clean fun without any of the self consciousness that seems to go along with clothing, fashion, and the heat rash that often turns up under such clothing on a hot summer day.
A great place to hold nude parties is at a private lake or pond that’s okay to swim in. The oldest bathing suit in the world comes attached to you when you’re born. That’s why it’s called your “birthday suit.” Water feels a lot different when you’re in the nude. It’s more enjoyable, more refreshing, and without any clothing to go riding up where the sun doesn’t shine leaves you feeling very free and refreshed. And when you get out of the water it’s a lot easier to dry off without a half pound of nylon clinging to you and soaking your towel and blanket.
For obvious reasons, nude parties that don’t focus on the possibility of orgies will usually revolve around water, and usually occur in the hot months of the year. Swimming pools are fantastic and easy environments in which to hold a nude parties. They’re almost always private, clean, and don’t have curfews. And anyone with a pool and a bit of a free spirit can throw a great nude party at their pool.
But you don’t have to have heat and water to throw nude parties. Nude parties can be set up anywhere where there’s enough privacy for your guests to feel okay about taking off their clothes and being safe. When we’re nude we do feel exposed, naturally. That can be an intimidating thing, but also very liberating, natural, relaxing, and energizing.