Now we live in a world where women take care of themselves. Sure they do not want a husband, boyfriend, brother or a father making them go through the toughest of life. Women in the 21st Century are confident, hard working, more successful than men in most of the fields, competitive and smart. But why are women trying so hard to proof themselves worthy of something. Are we threatened by the men who either act or talk as if they own us or are always two hands ahead of us? Are we so self conscious that we for once cannot believe the fact that men have different strengths than a woman? A man cannot take care of children properly as a mother does and I am not talking about exceptions. A woman has the greatest responsibility of carrying a child, the labor, the pain a mother goes through, a man can never imagine that.
Neo-feminism is about women valuing her body and not presenting it to every other man she likes or goes out with. The basic idea is that a women should save all that intense feeling, care, love and understanding for her husband rather than wasting it on other guys. Why do you think the divorce rate has increased so much that 50 out of 60 people ends up getting divorced? After marriage you might not understand each other? He does not feel the stress you are going through? He is not there for you? It just was not working out?
The answer is simple when you have been in a lot of relationships before you get married you definitely might have something good with someone. Like some guy could really understandable, the other one you were with might be a good listener, another one always used to be there for you etc. Once you see all those good qualities in the men you have been with you start believing that the man you are going to marry will be a combination of all that. Sure you might have a good couple of years of your marriage but things get worst and worst because you have other people to compare him with. But once you have waited for the right person you accept him with his flaws. This is NOT another way of me saying that ignorance is a blessing. If you don’t know what is out there you’ll stay happy. You won’t worry about what other choices you can have, you will feel comfortable with what you have.
Neo-feminism is not anti-women or to oppress them, it’s here to raise women from the downfall we are going into. Once a women starts to respect herself, thinking that she deserves more than just a one night stand or to just having a “good time”. You might stop and think before you have that kind of intense moments with someone. Once women starts respecting themselves and stop sleeping before marriage, the guy you will finally be with will cherish and appreciate this fact. And don’t think about the facts that if guys do it so will we. Guys act like pigs and jerks sometimes as well that does not mean we should start doing the same.