Men who have not perfected the art of flirting with women will need some help from the women. If a women can determine what is causing he failed attempts at flirting, she can help the conversation.
One reason that men have a difficult time flirting with women is because they are shy. When in a crowded room, such as a club or bar, it is intimidating for a man to approach a woman. If a female is gathered around with her friends, this makes it much harder for a man to approach. He will need to not only impress the woman he wishes to flirt with; he will need to impress her friends. This is much to stressful and intimidating for most men.
If a woman is single and wishes to show men she is open to them flirting with women, and her in particular, she needs to make herself available. This means she should not be hiding in a group of her friends. She should break away now and again, go off to get a drink, sit at the bar, and stroll around: all chances that leave opportunity open to men noticing she has a moment or two alone. For men wishing to win the art of flirting with women, this is the time to go in and talk to her.
If a woman is approached by a man and he makes any attempt what-so-ever to talk with her, this clearly means that he likes her. A man will not take the chance of being ignored or rejected by a woman if he does not find her interesting. Any talk, no matter what a man says, is a sign that he likes you. If a man is shy and he is not used to flirting with women, he may not say particularly great lines; he may stumble, stutter, and be at a loss for words: it does not matter. The fact that he approached and attempted a conversation is proof enough he is trying to flirt with girls. A woman must acknowledge this.
If is best if she does not make a comment about how he is nervous. No mention of the fact that he has difficulty flirting with women should be said. A woman can simply act casual, relaxed and begin talking with him. Once he sees that the interest in mutually, he will most likely respond and be able to talk with more ease.
A woman should be ware of men who are flirting with women all over the club, bar or other event in which she spies him. This type of man is probably just looking for attention and is flirting with women, regardless of whether he has real interest or not. Otherwise known as a player, a woman should not put too much effort into this, as he most probably does not have real interest and only wants to been seen as popular and entertaining. He will be flirting with women on one side of the bar and having conversations and flirting with women on the other. Usually, it is not worth a woman’s time.
While most woman wish for a man to come up to them and say wonderful things, tell the woman she is beautiful, tell her she is the loveliest woman he has ever seen: most men fail miserably at this moment. A woman should understand that a lot of men are not comfortable flirting with women and just the fact that he is making an attempt to talk is a great sign.
A good conversation can lead to a great date. A grant date can lead to many more. It is best for both sexes to give the other the benefit of the doubt and enjoy the conversation.