It is no massive secret that the key to flirting is confidence, if you do not have confidence then you will not be able to flirt with a girl. Let's face some facts straight before we go any further, if you don't succeed with a girl then what are the chances of seeing her again? The answer to that is virtually none, you may never see her again and she will not rub it in your face anyway. But if you succeed then congratulations that shows strong confidence and the ability to keep a strong conversation going.
Men flirting is not always a disaster, you just need to ability to know that you can successfully flirt with a girl. It doesn't even have to lead anywhere you might just be chatting to her for the thrill of it; you may even enjoy the sense that she is replying to you. If you want to flirt with a girl then you will have to make the first step, she will not come over to you and start a conversation that is up to you. You must make the first move and go over to her and start a good conversation. The first words are almost vital, if you stutter or mumble then that will not be a good start and you will have lost all confidence in yourself. You know that you don't want to walk away from this one as you might need the confidence boost, so to start the flirt with a girl you need to act strong.
Once you have a conversation going you will start to feel more relaxed. But as the conversation goes on you might start to feel uneasy or at complete ease. This is because of the way that you read body language, if you see this girl shifting a lot in her seat then that shows that she feels uncomfortable talking to you. That is obviously not a good sign and you will need to rectify it as soon as possible. Maybe you can comment on fact that you think that she seems uneasy talking to you. She will reply and that answer could make or break your talk. Of course you may not be as good as you think when you read body language and that could mean bad news for you. This lady might be given you all the right signs but you aren't picking up on them, at that point they will probably move on and forget about you.
When you see men flirting you will automatically think that they are after one thing, well they probably are. We know that flirting is a confidence booster but being able to take someone home with them would probably be an even bigger confidence booster. If you flirt with a girl then you would enjoy it if they would go home with you, but not all girls are like that. Some girls are also looking for a confidence booster knowing that they can attract men over to them.
If you are single and looking to flirt then you have the right to. But there are people that are not single and will still flirt; this hurts the other partner unless of course you have been given permission to flirt. If you aren't going to take the situation any further then you can flirt, but try not to get addicted to it.
Yes, it is a confidence booster, but having too much confidence can make you arrogant and selfish. So stick to your limit of confidence. When you are confident enough to approach people then you have reached that new height of confidence. Let the flirting begin.