Looking At Friendship vs Comradeship

It is funny how we use words everyday and not always think of their true meanings. I think about the important people in my life and the friendships I have made over the years. I have even thought, at times, of my comrades who have helped me over the years. Most people would look at this and think I am repeating myself when I talk about my friendships and comrades. The fact is, comradeships and friendships are completely two different concepts that should not be confused as meaning the same thing. In political and social settings, you would be amazed to see how different comradeships and friendships truly are.
To understand the differences between friendship vs comradeship, it is important to know what each term refers to. A comrade is someone who you would consider to be a ally. A friend is someone who you socialize with and is someone you can trust. It is understandable how some people think these terms are similar or basically has the same meaning. If an ally is someone you can trust and a friend is someone you can count on, then is this not the same concept? After all, trust is a common and important part in maintaining friendships and comradeships. Without trust, then neither a friendship or a comradeship can exist. So how is it that these two terms do not mean the same thing?

So when looking at friendship vs comradeship, how do you determine the difference between the two? Lets look at hoe friendships are formed. Usually, a person meets someone in some social setting and a conversation begins. It may start in different ways, but some interest between the two is apparent and if the interest is strong enough, further conversation will happen. After several conversations, the two may also meet in other social settings and a desire to continue being with each other can spark a friendship. Their would be a eventual trust between both parties and one would know they can count on the other for support. This can be to make the other person laugh, smile or just listen if there is a problem. The point is a friendship is formed and this will continue so long as one trusts the other. Each person enjoys being with the other person and there is no hidden agenda. If they do not always agree on certain topics or issues, it does not mean the friendship is in danger of failing. With comradeships, it is a completely different outlook.

In looking at friendship vs comradeship, you need to see and understand how each is formed. With comradeships, the social settings usually have some political topic that creeps up in a conversation. This means that when two people strike up a conversation, there is a hidden agenda where one needs the help of the other. It can be, for example, representatives from different countries. If the other person can be trusted, an alliance can be formed to be used later for some political means. If these allies begin to differ in opinions, they may feel the other is no longer useful. This would mean the end of the comradeship and could have dire consequences for others.

When looking at friendship vs comradeship, you need to realize they are not the same. A friendship has to be built over time and is based on trust. You would need common interests and to be able to get along with the other person. If some interests are not the same, the friendship can still work. In a comradeship, the point is to have some relationship where one can be useful to the other. Mostly based on common interests or goals. When the common goal is not the same, then the comrade, who is considered an ally, may fall apart. A comradeship is more fragile than a friendship because without some common goal, a comradeship will fall apart. Friendships are more to be cherished than a comradeship because it is not based on a political common goal. When the goal has been achieved, a comradeship will usually fade away into the darkness. A true friendship is something that will exist for a very long time and will always be more valuable then a comradeship.
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