Life's personals dictate the kind of life partner we will opt for and see as suitable for our needs. These include religion and culture and the list is endless as new and old life personals find a portal to merge, fuse and to be redirected or re-edited.
Islamic marriage is about embracing the concepts of these personals bringing the unity to an elevated level of partner satisfaction. Islamic dating is still slightly reserved as this is a certain cultural aspect of keeping things on a more formal and respectable basis.
Islamic marriage where the Islamic girls partners have been chosen long before the girl is old enough to even consider the possibility are still very common practices in today's Islamic society. It is clear that even though times may change and the world may be returning to getting smaller and bringing more people together, some forms of common cultural and religious practices will never die. It is clear that holding onto these things makes life easier since incorporating changes might be hard.
For modern Islamic girls who have seen the sometimes detrimental effects of an Islamic marriage arrangement change is needed. They want to escape this fate and often end up fearing for their lives in an attempt to free themselves from the choices made by their parents in an attempt of deciding who would best suit their companionship needs.
Although it is clear that many religions who do not even attempt to understand this form of Islamic dating choose to voice their uneducated assumptions, it is still all that bad. After all we do live in a society where the freedom of speech is the order of the day.
Islamic marriages are the way that they are i.e. male dominance because most Islamic countries are male dominated therefore making them masculine. The man is the head and the woman is the housewife who bares the children. It can be hard to understand why so many Islamic women would like or choose to live that kind of life. The answer needs no Einstein to explain. Religion Quotes from Religious sources often play a role in explaining or perhaps giving insight to Islamic marriages. That also means that not many Islamic women have a choice but to follow or be killed for shaming the family.
Perhaps on the surface it all seems really bad, with all the horrors reported by Islamic girls. The fact is we might never truly understand the mechanics of an Islamic marriage. We might however have our own personal views and carve them in stone, but they will not redirect or change any of the Religious scripts that Islamic men use to explain their actions.
In trying to understand we have to be willing to be truly open-minded and forget our bias opinions in the safe at home. Our own cultural and religious background plays a role when it comes to viewing the world.
We cannot throw stones unless if we are certain about our own perfection.
The world is changing, but some things like Religion might and perhaps will never change. That is what acceptance and respect is about. That we cannot change let us make peace with and accept. It will only make our lives and the people we influence lives better and simple and free of the unnecessary complications.