The difference between each girl.
If your reading this, I hope you have a little bit of experience with girls, catching a dutch girl isn’t easy. You should at least that know their difference’s. Just a shot recap, in Holland, women can be placed in 5 categories.
1.The wall flowers
2.The shy but hot girls
3.The aggressive kind
4.The arrogant kind
5.The sluts
Now I wont go into all the categories, because some should just be evaded. You should never try to catch a dutch girl that falls into the category of ‘arrogant’ or ‘sluts’ no matter how hard you try you will never catch an arrogant one, if they want you they will come for you. The ‘sluts’ is also a category you want to stay away from, these girls only want one thing, and no it is not sex (however some do want this) but mostly these girls make you totally crazy about them, and then when you least expect it they will crush your heart! Stay away!
The other categories can be approached, the wall flowers are the very insecure types that have a problem with being convinced that you truly like them.
And we all know the shy but hot girls, these are the girls that are so beautiful, but are still insecure and they are shy when approaching guys. These are the girls with the looks of a model, but they will never admit it, this makes them very hot for most guys – it does for me anyway. - And last but not least, you have the aggressive girls, these girls won’t wait for a guy to make the first move, they are looking for love and will do anything to find it. I also like to call these girls the ‘male hunters.’ A word of caution though, it can be hard to separate these girls with the ‘sluts’ since both are very aggressive, but they act different, as their name says, the sluts act like sluts and when they do that I suggest you get away, quickly!
Tips for all you hunters.
1. Practice makes perfect.
First of all, you need to pick to right girls to start with, you can have any girl you want, but you have to choose carefully. I suggest you start with the wall flowers, although the aggressive might be a bit to hard if your just beginning, these girls also hunt, and they don’t take prisoners! They wall flower takes some time to work on, but they won’t humiliate you, after you have practiced enough you can try for the other 2 categories.
2. Be yourself.
If you made contact with a girl and she is cute and nice, shows interest in you, then what is the problem? These is no problem, so take of your mask, and just be yourself. 99% of the women will appreciate it that you are just yourself, because how can you ever fall in love with a guy that pretends to be someone else? So be yourself, be honest and natural like you are with your friends (but leave the ‘guy-talk’ at home, they are not interested in that.)
3. She hasn’t noticed you (but you did notice her)
You like her, but she hasn’t noticed you (or pretends not to). Take a deep breath, drink some water, so that you have a clear mind. Then go for the kamikaze-attack. Go to her, preferable when she is standing alone or is looking around with one of her girlfriends. Introduce yourself, make a compliment about her appearance (and meant it) and wait how she will react. You will see – maybe to your amazement – that an opportunity to star a genuine conversation has risen. Take that change, and go for it.
OK, these where my tips, and I admit, it takes time to get familiar with them, but with a lot of practice it will eventually work, you will have conquest over conquest, this will boost your self-esteem, so that eventually you can go after the big fish, namely the arrogant type’s (or they will come to you) and if you have been unlucky enough to be left with a broken heart by a slut, you can now gladly return the favour and break theirs.
Most of all take you time, and everything will be fine. I tried all of these tips out myself, and still use them. I can promise you they work, if you just take your time for it. Now I hope this tips will help you to catch your own dutch girl.