The first time you meet someone the easiest way to flirt using body language, is to use your eyes. Begin with quick glances in the other person’s direction, and watch for return glances. This will help establish that there is a mutual interest of some kind, through the simple use of body language. If you can establish this mutual interest then it may be time to actually approach the other person. A good way to show a sincere interest, through body language, is to exchange smiles, glance briefly into their eyes then look at the rest of their face and return to the eyes. Don’t stare. If you’re not the one flirting then look for these signs to see if someone is trying to tell you they’re interested.
Of course there are far more obvious ways to flirt using body language. We often refer to it as showing off. Those are the moments when you know someone is looking and a person does something they hope the other will be impressed with. An example of this is bending over the pool table for the long shot just as they are looking. Showing off your body is one way of using body language. Other simple but obvious uses of body language to flirt include lingering when shaking someone’s hand for the first time.
Flirting is a simple thing. The important part is to not get carried away. You do not have to throw yourself at the person you are interested in. If you want to get their attention be yourself. Exhibit self-confidence and don’t be afraid to return the glance when you see it. Of course body language is not the only way to flirt. Starting up a simple conversation isn’t always easy but find simple things to talk about at first. Start by giving a complement or even just asking a question. Ask about something they are wearing or where they are from. This is a simple way to start out a conversation. While conversing it is a good time to turn on the body language with brief eye contact and a bright smile.
There are also more subtle ways to flirt using body language. If you are in a bar it is simple to decide you need a drink near the same time the one you are interested in does. You should not however, get up at the same time they do every time. If the person is seated at the bar you may choose to approach the bar near the other person or even better stand in a place at he bar that is directly across from them where they are definitely going to see you. This opens the arena for flirting using eye contact and body language. Often if you are seated near someone at the bar you may find one of you will tend to find a way to move closer and closer until you are almost touching. Flirting is an art, you have to learn to use your body language properly, and your flirting will seem graceful and flawless.