All that’s needed to begin your journey into the swinging lifestyle is an open mind, maybe some dancing and alcohol, and to be open to telling people what you’re looking for. Dancing is an excellent resource to identify with other swinger couples or individuals looking to continue the fun. Dancing is naturally a very liberating and stimulating endeavor, and when we’re open to expressing ourselves with our body to music, the idea of swinging also seems very natural to anyone open to it. Finding individuals who are already experienced in the swinging lifestyle is an excellent resource to find particular clubs or communities where the swinging lifestyle is part of the norm.
Once you’ve found a place where the swinging lifestyle is open and accepted, it can be a regular destination for vacationing, for a vacation home, or even a place to put down roots if the swinging lifestyle agrees with you. Beaches are a typical area where they swinging lifestyle is accepted, and a trip to a swinging beach for a swinging couple can easily become a regular destination for those looking for fulfilling their and their partner’s sexual fantasies.
The only hard and fast rule in the traditions of the swinging lifestyle is that the fun is consensual and that all participants give full and open permission for touching, playing, and any further sexual contact. The true swinging lifestyle never includes any variation of coerced activity. The swinging lifestyle is about being open and experimentational, fulfilling fantasies with your partner and lover.
To develop a swinger lifestyle doesn’t rely necessarily on swingers personals online or in newspapers and magazines to produce the desired encounters, although those are good resources. Anywhere were there’s a natural casual open attitude towards sex, there will be plenty of opportunities around for the swinger to find fun and relaxation, exciting encounters and for a swinger lifestyle to develop and bloom. This can happen anywhere where there are individuals with open minds, where there are creative and expressive thinkers.