It's always about what they think! As a group they have impact as they are the majority that is our society. Viewing life through the eyes of those that hold the power! In that they assume they have the right to decide what is right and wrong for each individual person. The ambiguity of it is that it is constantly changing with each new generation. Are they really catering for our personal interests or are they hampering our sexual explorations?
There is a new sheriff in town however, and she is not going to let the majorities tell her what to do. She walks in with her badge and star and claims the spot light, what counts to her is living life on her own terms. Not the dictatorship and close-mindedness of society but on what she feels she needs and wants out of her life. These are her lifestyle choices and they include the ever growing society of swinging. I choose to call her and her other deputies the female swingers. Dare to disagree with the law of the female swingers?
Knowledge is power and no one can argue that. Even the magazines are always doing their part to reinforce this, by educating women to embrace their needs and not the needs of the mass dominated society who themselves are too afraid to admit to having interest in things that are not part of the social norm.
It seems like women have always had to fight for their rights in this male dominated society. Rights to vote, to work, to get an education and to even be seen as equal individuals. And the battle is now on for female swingers to prove that they too can have sexual interests that are above the norm, just as their male counterparts. Perhaps the men are feeling a bit threatened, as sex has always been seen as their domain. Only they have the right to have sexual prowess!
Swinging is the lifestyle option for those who have more to offer to themselves. And at least some married men are open enough to go as far as needed to keep their partners content and happy. That is why so much wife swapping is going on through the usage of personal ads and the Internet. They are confident enough to know that when they enter the swinging environment of wife swapping - they have nothing much to loose. The swinging lifestyle is about choice and in order to enter the wife swapping environment you have to be prepared to follow the basic principles that will help enchance the quality of the experience as well as your relationship. These principle, or unwritten laws are basically that swinging is an opportunity to learn how to relax and appreciate sexual pleasure.
The attractiveness of swinging to female swingers or playful swingers is all due to the fact that society can sometimes be cruel to women who have an active interest in sex and who want to explore this interest in ways that are appealing to them. It can be seen as a venting outlet with like minded female counterparts, regardless of whether they are wife swapping swingers or just playful swingers.
Swinging in the form of wife swapping is advantageous because it helps the individuals involved learn quite a bit about themselves and their sexualities. As opposed to the view that sex is only for ego boosting and is to be used as a social bargaining chip.
To get the best quality out of your swinging experience, it is best to remember that swinging works best when it is viewed as an enhancement to an already existing sexual relationship as opposed to replacing it for a failing one.
The oyster that is the world is opening up slowly. New experiences are needed everyday and old ways of thinking are to be noted as the catalyst for change in history books. Whether swinging is new or just an old social experience that has been a lying dormant, it is all based on personal view.