Ok, here's the scenario: I'm new to Melbourne, Austrtalia; I already have a job, don't have much free time and would like to meet someone do some dating in Melbourne. What direction do I go in? Do I follow up on Melbourne personal ads --- many of which are free but also fake, or do I invest some money into a matchmaking firm that promises to find "compatible" companionship for me. At least four or five matches or whatever the going rate is for the amount of money I'm paying?
In theory anyway, Melbourne matchmakers should have an advantage over blind Melbourne personal ads, because the matchmaking firm has someone who acts as a relationship mediator. A sort of love-broker if you will. They've seen you in person, they've seen the other person live and in the flesh so they can judge at least to an extent how you two lovebirds will get along. When it comes to dating in Melbourne , you're kind of rolling the dice. If your do the on-line thing, all you have to go by is the photo you see and the bio you read. And like previously mentioned, both the photo and the bio can be fake, exaggerated and certainly won't list that individual's less desirable habits. Hmmmm...another reason to perhaps follow up on the Melbourne matchmaking gig and not Melbourne personal ads. Plus the matchmaker gets feedback from the Melbourne singles after they've made their initial meeting, to find out if pursued subsequent dating in Melbourne.
To test my theory I decided to check out both venues for companionship. The Melbourne personal ads that I checked out were interesting. I never quite understood why some of these sites only give you a sort of "top ten" of Melbourne singles. But you know, when it comes to dating in Melbourne , maybe there really aren't that many girls and a "top ten" is all you have to play with. Let's hope not. What happened to the other hundred candidates? I guess I have to pay for that privilege. And if I'm going to pay I might as well do it the old fashioned way and get some Melbourne sex. At least if I pay for Melbourne sex I know what I'm getting. But I'm hoping for something a little more profound. I'm looking for a girl that swallows and enjoys it. Anyway, what I did notice and this certainly isn't all-inclusive; is that quite a few of these young women on quite a few of these sites sure look familiar. I'm not saying I know them because I've never tried to meet anyone using Melbourne personal ads before. I just have this feeling that these girls in the photos aren't the girls I'm actually reading about. And another thing -- I'm trying to meet Melbourne singles for dating in Melbourne, so why are so many women from Russia popping in with their profiles?
At the other end of the spectrum is the Melbourne matchmaker. The few sites I checked looked legitimate. I mean, if I can actually go into the matchmaker's office and talk to the owner and see her photo's and then meet the girls, and it leads to dating in Melbourne, then that's a good thing right? It seems that for the money spent I will get something back on my investment. And that's what it is when you're rolling the dice with a Melbourne personal ad or matchmaker. You're investing time and money (well, mostly money) with the hopes of meeting someone who wants to have some fun.
The other option is speed dating Melbourne is kind of spread out, so I don't know how successful speed dating in Melbourne really is. Plus, when it comes to speed dating Melbourne may wind up recycling all the same women from the previous week. And that sucks. Especially if I was there speed dating the previous week.
Well, getting back to basics, the money spent on the matchmaker is about what you'd spend on a night out (well...a night out with a French whore anyway). Ok, so it's a little steep, but can you really put a price tag on finding the girl of your dreams? Of course not. My goal - being new to Melbourne - was to meet a hot babe from Melbourne. Having said that, I think my money will be better spent with a matchmaker. And who knows, it might lead to something or someone special!