Same sex couples, in order to have a child, are going to have to adopt, there is just no way around that one. Of course, some people feel that it is not fair to the child, to let them be adopted by the same sex couples. They say that kids that go through adoptism with same sex couples are going to have a harder time in life. However, this statement can neither be proven nor denied. Many people say that it is hard enough for a kid to have to go though adoptism, but to have to do it with same sex couples is going to make it even harder. They say that the kids could grow up confused at what is going on. A lot of people disagree with that statement completely. In fact there is no information that supports the idea that same sex couples cannot raise a child the right way. However, it is better for a child to be adopted by someone than to not be adopted at all. This makes the child feel unwanted and unloved. So because of this, some say that adoptism by same sex couples is good, in the fact that it gives a child a home. Not having a home, to me anyway, would be worse than growing up in a home with parents that are same sex couples. I do not think it is fair to tell anyone that they cannot adopted. After all, America is suppose to be the land of the free, and if we cannot believe in what we choose to believe in, then we are left in the cold.
Adoptism is one of those things that we may never be truly rid of all the negative things that people have to say. Either way, you have to admit that no matter what people say in the end, adoptism is a good thing. To get a child out of a home where he is being beaten on, or sexily harassed, is a lot better than letting him grow up with this problem. They say growing up in a house like that is what causes kids to have problems when they are adults. Adoptism is one of those things that can help improve a child's life, and that by itself should be good enough for people to want to keep it around.