life is too short for misery, live life to the full and enjoy everymoment of it, be yourself and always treat other people as you expect to be treated yourself, enjoy the good things that life brings and dont dwell on the past, because its no longer in your life its gone, if you do that then you wont move forward and enjoy what there is to enjoy in this life, its your future at the end of the day and your destiny.....love your life..we are a long time dead lol